Apologies and updates

Well, hello there!

It’s been a while. I’m not sure atm who’s still here, who’s not, and who’s new. I’m just a guy from Spain who used to post here A LOT (mostly on a daily basis) but suddenly dissapeared. I thought about coming sooner, but my life has been a rollercoaster and I had to put it in order first. I also though about messaging some people in private before posting this, but… I guess I want to do it general. I’m about to share some personal stuff, so if you don’t have the time or the interest, it’s okay! Just jump to the next post. Nobody will judge you :smiley: (You can also move to the bottom, where I’m posting my latest finished kits)

And some of you may think… Is this really something you should post to the public? But hey, I have nothing to hide. And after being supposed to meet @Wenbare at the Meet Up and also being accepted as a Robotime Ambassator, idk. I guess it’s the least I could do. And, either eay, I have nothing to hide.

But I want to apologize to @Robotime and @Wenbare first and mostly. By the time I was travelling to Barcelona by mid-December for the Meet Up there was a huge fight. I discovered things about my partner that were… Well. The kind of thing I consider unforgivable in a relationship. We’ve just moved together to a flat where the rent is not that chip, I’ve just spend a decent portion of my savings to get that flat, my life was kind of moving around here (which is not that smart, I know, but easier said than done), and suddenly my relationship was over, just like that, from one moment to the next. All because of, or thanks to, that trip we were taking to Barcelona.

I know, I could and should’ve said something. But my mind was kind of broken, you know. I met that girl a couple of years after the failure of my previous relationship, which ironically ended for the same reason. She (my latest) knew this, and still… That happened. It took me a while to believe it, to take it on, and specially to move on. I didn’t really have the strength to come happily post about my kits, or to build any kits, or to even message or post someone here like “hey, sorry about all this, I’m not in the mood”. I’ve never been someone willing to bother anyone with my problems, even if they’re affecting other people somehow (f.e. @Wenbare expecting me to show up and build my kit there, which never happened). All of this may not be an excuse, and it’s not. But I guess you were looking for an explanation, and here you have it. Sorry, again and truly, for the ghosting made.

I’ll be more than happy to talk in private deeply about this with whoever needs it or wants it.


And well, I’ll also take this chance to showcase my latest creations that, obviously, you don’t know about.

First of all of course is the Titanic that I finally got to finish, as I’ve seen @jeanneL has done as well. It was fun build to say the least.

I was really happy of the result. The cord of lights was… Tricky to attach to the front of the ship due to the really tiny gap through which you need to hook it, but it does the job. The chimnets were also tricky yet fun to put together. It really is a wonder of a kit… Even when my red part of the hull remains “crooked”, but it’s not affecting the whole image so I’m not that bugged about it.

So Titanic is done! But if you remember, there were also two kits I was building or supposed to (the Bookstore Nook for my brother, and the 3D Airplane from the October Mistery Prize). Both are done as well :smiley:

The Airplane was pretty straightforward, one piece of the main body of the plane almost broke since the parts of this kit are sooooo fragil, but it’s a quick and satisfying build. I’ve decided not to paint it in the end.

Last but not least, my first ever Book Nook! It was an interesting, longer than expected and challenging build in some ways. There were some things I wasn’t used to, such as:

  • Tons of small wooden square-ish parts (books-to-be) you had to cover with stickers to made them look like tiny books. It was and interesting choice since most of those covers were not gonna be seen in the final product, but still, they’re there, which is cute
  • Oh, the plants! I guess the “cut the proper piece of plastic plant and twist it into the tiny pot so it’ll fit and stay there” is the closest to the Super Creator kits I’m getting so far
  • Not sure if it’s a common thing in those kind of kits, but there was a bag with parts from a different material (not sure how to describe it, or which material is it), I was supposed to build a rack and a box with it. The pieces would come together but fall apart as easily, so I kind of had to use glue on them :kissing_face:
  • Funny thing… I kind of freaked out once it was done because the lights weren’t working. At all. It took my a while to remember there was an on/off switch on the battery box… :face_with_open_eyes_and_hand_over_mouth:

Either way it was a fun and interesting build, and now I kind of want to build more Nooks so I can enjoy more of them at home. Because well, my relationship ended, but I kept the flat for myself :wink:

See you/read you around, be good :slight_smile:

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Thanks for coming back and sharing with us. You’re doing great, and that’s wonderful. You haven’t given up your passion for modeling. You’ve done a great job.

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Nice build!!! New Chapter is coming so move on!! Happy to see you again!

I know this is tough but so are u :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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@TheToday Welcome back!!! :yellow_heart:

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Hey @TheToday welcome back! Thanks for sharing such a personal story with us, it’s never easy to be so open and raw to people, that must have taken a lot of courage for you to actually say Hey, I’ve been sad.

But that’s what I love about our community here. We listen and we don’t judge because, well, you know we all have our internal struggles. I just want to give you a massive virtual big hug. :pink_heart:

It’s always going to feel like you’ve made one step forward only to fall two steps backwards but you just gotta keep going. I hope by building the Titanic, you’ve been able to find some peace and solace. :heart:

I’m not sure if I’m able to convey the right message as I’m not the best with words. But the virtual community here will always be ready to cheer you on! You better be getting more book nooks for the flat now! :laughing:

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Welcome back @TheToday . I’m so sorry to hear about your relationship. Going through all these was not easy but I’m glad you got it together and focus on yourself and do the things that are best for you. Sometime it’s good to focus on yourself a little and there’s nothing wrong with it. I’m happy to see your completed builds and you have done a brilliant job with it. It’s great to see you continue with your passion.

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Welcome back @TheToday I’m glad you’re back. What a rough time you’ve been through! You don’t have to apologize; your personal life is more important than this community. I think it’s very brave of you to share your story. I hope you get your life back on track soon… I wish you strength :hugs:

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Great pictures.

@TheToday, You are braver than you know, stronger than you feel, and more resilient than this moment makes you believe. This is just one part of the ride , not the end of it. Keep holding on. The best views come after the hardest climbs, and you’re going to make it through this. Your story isn’t over; this is just the chapter that makes you unstoppable.

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Welcome back @TheToday I am sorry to hear about your relationship. I’m glad that you were able to move on despite all that and I praise you for sharing your thoughts with us.

Thank you for sharing.

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Thanks a lot to all of you for your words. Truly. They mean a lot :heart:

I’m so glad to be a part of this community with y’all :slight_smile:

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Thank you for sharing all of this so openly. I’m really sorry you went through such a rough time, it sounds like a lot to carry all at once. I truly hope things are feeling a bit more settled for you now and that life is treating you more kindly.

No hard feelings on my side at all. I appreciate the explanation, and I’m just glad to see you back around and building again. Welcome back to the community, and I hope this space continues to be something comforting and positive for you.

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Hellooo welcome back. :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes: I’m so sorry about what happened to your relationship but I hope you feel better and okay now. You’re always welcome here to the community.

Those are awesome builds btw. They’re beautiful. :pink_heart:

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@TheToday I am so sorry you had to go through all of that. But I am also glad you are here with people that do care about each other! talking about this just a bit can help with healing. No need for apologies. Just know we missed you. and am glad you are back!

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Sorry to read what happened to you. I was already wondering why i didn’t see you post anymore. Good to have you back. Like the rest always here if you need a talk

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I am sorry that you had such an ordeal like this one occur in your life. Agreed, it is something unforgivable. People can say “forgive and forget”…but the memories don’t go away. I’m sure you must be “in a better place” now that this is finalized. At least I hope you are. Welcome back.

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I’m so sorry that happened to you!! losing your trust in someone whom you loved with your whole heart is not something easy to go through, so my heart goes to you and healing will not be easy but the fact that you got back here and are comfortable enough to talk about what happened to you is a huge step towards your mending your broken pieces inside, so congratulations on that and please remember that healing is a slow and a step-by-step process so please take it easy on yourself, grieve what you should grieve and throw away the rest (I don’t know if I even have the right to tell you this but I just wanted you to know that it’ll be okay after a while, or at least memories will be less painful)
and again congratulations on coming back here!!!

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You’re really brave to post about your life on here and I’m so sorry that happened to you. I would say that there are a lot of us who have been through similar. I am 55 years old (today, actually :slightly_smiling_face:) and I found myself starting over about 11 years ago, but was blessed to find the love of my life almost 4 years ago. Relationships aren’t easy, and sometimes there’s a period of time that you’re wondering where your life is going and whether you’ll ever meet the right person. I can tell you that when the time is right, you’ll heal and the right person will indeed find you. Please know that you are cared about, even by people like me whom you’ve never met. Keep your head up and keep on being you. Prayers and hugs to you. :pink_heart:

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